Let’s Talk About Sex
June 19, 2008
One of the things I’ve noticed since I’ve started this blog is that once I tell people I write a blog about dating, their eyes immediately light up, and they tell me, “I’ve got a story for you!”
Even more interesting, though, is that men suddenly feel like they can tell me anything about sex—and I mean anything. It’s like I’m their own personal Carrie Bradshaw, or a licensed sex therapist or something. Since I’ve been writing The Dating Lame, I’ve discussed the following with men:
- Girls who like to be choked
- Girls who like to be choked HARDER
- Whether it’s normal to pee on someone in the shower
- The merits of waxing
- Which girls like to give the most oral sex
- A guy who touched his date’s IUD on purpose (this may have to get its own post)
- How long to wait before sleeping with someone
- The art of the booty text (no longer a booty call)
- How Botox could potentially improve part of the male anatomy
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not complaining. It’s fascinating, and often hilarious. My favorite quote so far? Regarding choking your partner in bed: “I never knew about it in junior high, but now it’s a go-to move!”
Take it from me, girls. If you want to hear more than you ever thought you would about men and sex, just tell ‘em you’re writing a blog. Just a word of warning: You may hear more than you first expected, so if it’s someone you’re interested in, have an open mind!
June 19, 2008 at 2:31 pm
Let’s settle this once and for all. It is not normal to pee on someone in the shower.
June 19, 2008 at 2:43 pm
I agree. Wholeheartedly.
June 19, 2008 at 4:18 pm
but in the bed room is A OK….
June 19, 2008 at 5:00 pm
Wow! I learned something today. I had no idea that choking is totally in. Finally, I’m hip!
Kidding.
June 20, 2008 at 1:26 pm
God put our mouths on our head for a reason.
June 22, 2008 at 7:58 pm
I like pee. That includes getting peed on, and peeing on a boy toy.
I know, I know… I’m weird.
June 23, 2008 at 11:29 am
As a physician, I can tell you, with certain authority, that peeing is an absolutely normal courting ritual, particular in office romances.
July 25, 2008 at 3:42 am
I didn’t realize I would like the choking thing (it never even crossed my mind) until he did it to me. It really does do the trick.